Ep 047: Sex & Smartphones: A Doctor’s Perspective That Every Man Needs To Hear with Dr. Trish Leigh
In this episode, Dr. Trish Leigh explores how pornography and hypersexualized social media hijack dopamine pathways in the male brain, creating compulsive behaviors that mimic addiction. This brain dysregulation erodes focus, emotional regulation, and intimacy, often leading to anxiety, attention difficulties commonly mistaken for adult ADHD, and damaging relationship dynamics. Dr. Leigh emphasizes that these issues are not merely bad habits but rather profound neurological malfunctions that require targeted intervention. Through a blend of neuroscience and coaching, she offers actionable strategies to reset the brain’s dopamine balance, restore emotional control, and rebuild healthy intimacy. Her expertise as a brain health specialist and author of Mind Over Explicit Matter empowers men and women to break free from compulsions, enhancing overall well-being and relational success beyond professional achievements.
Chapters:
00:00 – Phone as a relationship wedge & dopamine’s role
01:47 – Introduction of Dr. Trish Leigh & her expertise
04:18 – Neurofeedback & brain rewiring background
05:19 – Discovering porn addiction impact
06:54 – Personal mission & effect on families
10:05 – Effects of explicit content on anxiety & attention
11:07 – Compulsion vs. habit; addiction science
15:38 – Hidden costs: intimacy & focus decline
20:31 – Porn as supernormal stimulus distorting pleasure
24:05 – Brain dysregulation as core problem
26:14 – Early exposure and brain development impact
31:23 – Adult ADHD vs. behaviorally induced attention issues
33:38 – Digital detox & balancing screen time
44:14 – Parenting digital natives & phone management
46:42 – Charging stations & screen time routines
47:38 – Screen time earning strategies for kids
50:31 – Framing phones as privileges with consequences
52:31 – Resources & coaching programs offered
54:33 – Final remarks and call to action
LEIGH'S LINKS:
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrTrishLeigh
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drtrishleigh
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtrishleigh
Website: https://drtrishleigh.com/
MITCHELL’S LINKS:
FREE GIFT: Igniting Intimacy: https://www.dadnationco.com/intimacy
Work with Mitchell: https://www.dadnationco.com/coaching
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dadnationco
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadnationco/